Georg,
Thanks for the reply. I am not 100% sure, but I did two things, first, because there were so many updates to install, I installed them a few at a time. I limited the major updates, like core updates, by themselves. I also changed a setting in a Windows pop up asking about permissions. I believe it had more to do with the permissions than anything else.
As to the Mac, I don't have anything enabled to prevent the updates. They download just fine, but the pop up that tells me they will install when I restart PI, nothing happens. At this point, it's not a major problem, I am using the program and starting to get a good feel for it.
Scott