Jim, FWIW, I find "super flats" to be an "advanced" process. I haven't got into doing superflats yet.
If I didn't take flats on a given night, before getting into superflats, my approach would be:
1) Take them now with a light box, or next morning at dawn, etc. Sure, camera rotation won't be exactly the same, focus might be not the same, etc. but I'll only know how bad the results will be after I've done it. Sometimes it might just do what you wanted. If it didn't, you only lost a few minutes capturing the flats anyway...
2) DBE... DBE is this incredible tool that often does a really good job to solve a particular problem, but yes, sometimes it may take several attempts (or even several DBE applications) to get it done. Sometimes a lot of samples are needed, sometimes just a few is all it takes, sometimes you need to fool around with it for a while. Sometimes it may not do what you want because maybe what you want isn't really what DBE can do for you. It all depends...
Do this: construct a model, apply it, and use STF to "view" the stretched background model to see if it's shaped more or less the way you think it should. If it isn't, place/remove samples to be better defined as you think it should. Adjust some of the parameters, etc.
But of course, do take flats next time!
Sorry gents I didn't even know what dithering was until two weeks ago, so unfortunately I've not dithered..
Median combine didn't seem to work, I had three images I chose (one of M13, one of M27 and one of the M16), I ended up with a partial composite of all three M's unaligned...
I'm going to try redoing the reduction/calibration and combination, using the tutorials on CR2 workflow.