Thanks Sander and Cleon for replying.
Sander, i think i do make the flat according to instructions,
and calibrate my lights as they should, but i will check again.
Maybe i have not made all the mistakes wet

Cleon, i see that your flat is a linear image and you applied STF to make the content visible.
Well this is a clear sign that i goofed somewhere, the image in the link is my flat as it came
out of the making process and looks stretched!
Did you make it with PI ?
I made one with DSS and it is exactly the same, an autostretch lurking in the background ?
Hmmm, more testing is in order...
J Guy