thanks for the analysis. i was wondering what was wrong. my flow here is very convoluted, so it's possible i've done something wrong along the way.
if i don't use the LN frames then muredenoise does very well using the image metadata and a variance scale of 1. actually i need to dial it down to about 0.75 to keep it from being too smooth.
as per usual, my data is absolute crap - bortle red zone and RGB imaging don't really go together but i keep on banging my head against it for some reason. normally i cull pretty aggressively with subframeselector but this time i just ditched the obviously awful frames only using blink and integrated the balance. it is very likely that some of those input frames are just bad; i need to go back with SFS and see if there are a bunch with super-high background (it certainly sounds like there are given your analysis.)
also, i continue to suffer from some problem which makes flattening these high-LP frames very difficult - i am always left with large-scale circular artifacts in the integrated image. they are large enough that they could be reflections off my flattener as the size would indicate whatever it is is about 3" from the sensor. furthermore, my camera apparently failed and i removed it from the OTA before obtaining flats; despite getting it working again and putting it back in the same orientation it is possible the flats simply don't match anymore.
anyway because i think i've exhausted all other options (sky flats vs. panel flats, flocking), i started playing around with fabian neyer's method of sky-correcting panel flats. what i ended up doing was just integrating all my images together without registration, aggressively rejecting, and then doing DBE to that integrated image, then removing scales 1-128 from the background model a couple of times and multiplying the flat by the smoothed model. when i did this to the blue channel i did not rescale anything and the resultant modified master flat is very dim. so this might have had the effect of brightening up the calibrated images; not sure. in theory the flat scaling during calibration should have undone this dimming.
although this resulted in a reasonably decent registered/integrated image, it did still need DBE, probably due to my "sky model" being innaccurate. the DBE was successful, and at some point it dawned on me that i could use the DBE'd image as a reference for LN and fix the original subs straight away without modifying the flat. when i did this, the SNR of the LN'd master seemed about an order of magnitude greater than the non-LN master so i concluded that this was the right flow. however, on the R channel i did not observe this effect. one difference on the R channel is i started rescaling the multiplication of the flat by the smoothed DBE model. i also got dark artifacts around some stars @ LN scale 128. moving to 256 cured that. finally as juan has stressed running NoiseEvaluation on two different images like that yields an invalid comparison, so the SNR was probably not a good metric to use to compare the two masters.
anyway this is all a very long-winded way to say that i've absolutely beaten the hell out of this data so it may be beyond what you'd normally see with LN in terms of bad quality.
rob