Mike, if you are using a synthetic RGB built from just Ha and Oiii the stars are never going to have the correct/realistic colours.
Unless I am misunderstanding you?
What I would do is blend your Ha and Oii data into a true RGB image, losing/minimising the Ha and Oii stars and replacing them with the RGB versions.
I guess this will only work if you have a true RGB image as well as your narrowband data.
Regards Phil