One suggestion for selecting large stars is to create a star mask (using StarMask or ExtractLuminance or whatever), then apply a bit of Histogram clipping to get rid of the fainter smaller stars, then apply some Erosion using the Morphological Transform to get rid of the smaller stars. You may want to apply some AtrousWavelets or Dilation to increase the large stars back up in size.
Alternatively create the a starmask and then use AtrousWavelets to kill the first 2, 3, 4 or however many layers to get rid of the smallest stars. Again, subsequent use of Erosion etc may help.
I would love a tool that allows me to say 'I'll mask that one, that one and that one please'. Maybe this is some sort of extension of the Paint tool with another layer enabled?
Cheers
Simon