Hi Troy
If you want something automatic, and just play with some parameters, give first ABE a try. It works with another kind of interpolation, but it makes a global fit, instead of a local one, as in DBE.
Of course, ABE will fail if you images are not dominated by background sky, i.e. you have large nebulaes, or very dim objects crossing the entire frame. In those cases the only choise is DBE.
Now, in DBE, you have 2 choises. Using a system similar to what is internally done in ABE, DBE lets you automatically generate samples over the entire image. To include (or reject) more samples, just change the tolerance and shadows relaxation parameters. How dense is the grid is controlled by the number of samples per row. Usually it is not necessary to cover the whole image, or to have too many samples. Just enough to be representative. Remember that the background modelization is a smooth function, and in normal conditions you wont have small or medium scale variations.
Once you found a good compromise with those parameters, manually add or erase samples, to ensure that they are located over background sky only. This is the main advantage of DBE over other algorithms.