It is because the Oiii and Sii is usually a lot weaker than the Ha. That means they need to be stretched more and the stars bloat in the channels you're using as Red and Blue.
My preferred solution to this is to remove the stars from a copy of each of the NB masters. I use the starless versions to make the colour component of the image and the originals (still including stars) to build the luminance. This idea is shamelessly stolen from JP Metsavainio's tone mapping process and works brilliantly.
Cheers,
Rick.